Session 15: Marriage | Marriage Applications
Measuring Your Compatibility - ARE
1. How much time (what percentage) are you both able to be who you ARE?
-Ideally, this is more than 50%
2. How much time is one of you able to be who you ARE and the other not losing energy?
-Should be a higher number than the answer to question #3...
3. How much time is one of you able to be who you ARE and the other losing energy?
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Measuring Your Compatibility - Husbanding & Husbandry
1. The Husbandry knows her goal. (What is she going towards?)
2. The Husband agrees with her goal.
3. The Husband wants to help her accomplish the goal.
4. The Husbandry trusts him to help her achieve the goal.
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Measuring Your Compatibility - Emotional Intimacy
1. Let each other be themselves (they desire this).
2. See each other as friends (they're each others' biggest cheerleaders).
3. Have been through dark times successfully.
4. Have boundaries with each other's family/relatives.
5. Have difficult conversations.
6. Have fought and know how to argue with each other without being abusive.
7. Make fun of each other’s quirks.
